What scares you the most?

I have never loved games like where you have to choose something that you like the most, or what do you hate the most . . .

At one point in my life, I got the question what is my biggest fear…

And I was quite, I didn’t know…  because of everyone expected me to say sneaks, big scary animals, heights, spaces, but it wasn’t…

….and then a few years ago I read a book about relationships, and then I realized that most people fall out of love for the same reason they fall in. Which is really weird. That their lover’s once attractive stubbornness has now become refusal. That their immaturity was the reason to laugh and now is annoying, their habits, once you loved and adored, is now money down the drain.

Their spontaneity becomes reckless and irresponsible. And jealous once was attractive and sexy and now is just a distraction in your life.

So, what scares me the most is a thought that I become ugly to someone who once thought all the stars were in my eyes.

16 Comments Add yours

  1. May you never be scared the most 😉

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  2. Jo Linsdell says:

    A very thought provoking post. I’m not sure what my biggest fear is.

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  3. I don’t really do fears. I suppose something like dying before finishing what I want to accomplish – or in the middle of a book!!

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  4. Interesting thoughts. My biggest fear would probably be losing the ones I love.

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  5. Bookworms corner blog spot says:

    I don’t like to dwell on my fears.

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  6. Nicole Pyles says:

    What a thought-provoking post! I feel like for me it depends on context in terms of fear. Spiders are also up there.

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  7. Lauren Becker says:

    That’s an interesting though…and definitely scary. I wouldn’t want someone who once loved me to find me lacking in such a big way.

    -Lauren
    http://www.shootingstarsmag.net

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  8. the fear of not loving me back to the peoples i love

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  9. jenchaos76 says:

    My biggest fear is something bad happening to my kids.

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  10. Empress DJ says:

    A profound insight!

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  11. Ruby's Books says:

    Such a thought-provoking post! My biggest fear is falling, which is paired with my fear of heights.

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  12. Gayathri Lakshminarayanan says:

    Interesting post. I am terrified of cats and I know it may sound silly, but it is real.

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    1. Wow girl, I feel the same about cats!

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      1. Gayathri Lakshminarayanan says:

        Whhat? I never knew of someone else who feared cats. I feel better already.

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      2. Yeah, I know, me too!

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